Age Gap: Why We Want Older.
When you saw a young woman dating an older man in the 80′s, you could safely make the assumption that the guy had a pretty hefty bank account. But now you can see a 20-something dating a Bon Jovi type and not think twice about it. The age gap in relationships have been pushing the boundaries for the last few years, but why are people becoming so attracted to different generations?
A lot of it has to do with sex. Cougars have the right idea of going for younger men not because of how they look, but for what they can offer them in bed. A man’s sexual peak happens sometime from age 18-25, but a woman’s doesn’t come around until her mid-40′s. Why put all that good sexual energy to waste? If you’re a 40 year old woman, chances are you’re not going to get what you’re looking for out of your 40 year old partner. The early-20′s-male-and-mid-40′s-woman combo is so perfect that it should be an entire genre of porn.
Being with someone of a different age has endless benefits. If you’re the younger one of the pair, you get experience you can’t find through your university classmates. It’s not just wine that gets better with age– people pick up all sorts of kinks and tricks over the years and learning early on means you’ll have those moves with you for the rest of your sexually active life.
But don’t think you have nothing to learn if you’re the older of the two. Youth seem to be on a constant singles sex search, so you just may be in for something you haven’t seen on your block before. Not to mention you get to have a run at all the parts that you haven’t seen in working order for a while.
There is no ‘too much’ when it comes to age gaps anymore. With the benefits of it increasing daily and society being so accepting, trying a relationship with an age difference can be more pleasurable than you think.