You’ve been single for a while, the girl you’ve been talking to online has turned into something a little more, and you’re about to go on the big date that you know is going to lead to a night to remember.
But what if you get to the bedroom and your usual adventurous self doesn’t perform as well as you remember? After all, sex isn’t like riding a bike; you have to get in your practice time if you want to stay on top of your game (and, unfortunately, self-pleasuring doesn’t count as practice).
When you’re ready to get back into the game, take some time before hand to go over my fool-proof preparations.
Groom! No one wants to go down on a guy that looks like a character from Star Wars. Trimming and making sure you’re presentable won’t just make her happy, but it will make you feel more confident going back into the bedroom.
Read an erotic book. Not only will it put you in the mood, but it will give you tips on how to start the dirty talk in bed. Porn doesn’t have the same effect, as they’re mostly moaning and motion and less talk. Reading a steamy book will lead you in the right direction on what to say when the lights go down.
Watch porn. Now that you have the pillow talk out of the way, you need to get the moves down! Sex is quickly turning into the new technology in the sense that it always seems to be quickly evolving. Download the latest videos and make note of the positions and places they’re doing it. Who says you need to be in the bedroom? After dinner enjoy some strawberries and cream in the kitchen to stimulate the senses, and stay in there to seal the deal.
Go shopping. You’re going to need condoms, obviously, but these days there’s so much more fun to be had while having sex. You can usually attribute happy singles dating to a strong and healthy sex drive. Pick up some massage oils to set the mood, or buy a small tube of lube in case she wants to get adventurous.
Most importantly, relax! If she’s willing to have sex with you, then you’re already over the hard part. Turn on the charm, enjoy your time, and in the event you don’t perform as well as you wanted, you can always ask for a do-over!