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There are few things hotter during sex than the element of surprise. When your partner does something for or to you that comes out of left field in a positive way, it can take the experience to a whole new thrilling level. This is especially true nowadays when relationships are so online-based, which means that profiles often glaringly predict whether you will get lucky or not on the first date. So when you go out on XXX dates with people who seem squeaky clean, but then very quickly get naughtier than you ever imagined, it is a delightful surprise and super hot. It also hammers home the point that a bit of mystery on these profiles goes a long way. There is definitely something to be said for leaving things to the imagination.
Surprise XXX dates can involve any number of kinky sex toys hidden in a woman’s purse or a man’s bedroom drawer. Or just extreme sexual practices that come out of nowhere from the face of an angel. The less predictable XXX dates are often the hottest.