One the larger mistakes that people make when they think of being bold is that they should always and constantly be sexually aggressive on the dating scene. This is not always so. Being bold means moving swiftly and decisively at the right time. When this is further considered it becomes clear that it does not mean moving aggressively and constantly. There is timing, proper timing to consider. If you are looking to get fucked it does not mean you go into the club and march right up to some young pretty and lay out a line and expect to take that person home. You are likely to be laughed at if not given outright hostility and possibly even a fight by some other person who didn’t particularly feel very welcoming either. To be bold and to make time with some you’re attracted to or them you means to study your area and study the people in it.
On must look for the latest single’s action; where is it not? Is it on-line or live? Is the music playing at a club you frequent well received, are the people hip? Are there some possible opportunities sitting by themselves or with a small group of company? How best should you approach them? Do they even look approachable? There are a great many considerations to make in a very short time. You have to learn to assess your situation with a pinpoint accuracy, formulate a plan quickly and then prepare the timing. Once you have decided on the best time, then and only then do you move in swiftly and boldly and stake your claim, strike up a conversation and carry on. With luck, effort, a bit of charm and good humor singles can claim one another and be their way home for a night of cuddle or sucking and fucking. It can all be yours if you play your cards right, watch for the right moves and make them boldly. Others will try and fail for lack of having made the efforts before hand and you will be one of the successful ones. When you plan more now, you will have less to worry about later. This is sound practice that will see you through the challenges of any situation.