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  • Peters 5:44 pm on October 28, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Are You Too Desperate To Date? 

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    You’ve tried everything to meet singles. You’ve asked your friends to hook you up, you’ve spread the word that you’re looking, you wear suggestive clothing when you go out, and you let it be known that you’re even OK with casual sex. So why aren’t you getting any dates?!

    Well my friend, it might just be because you’re too desperate to date.

    There’s a very thin line between putting yourself out there and putting yourself in an embarrassing situation. When you’re looking to date someone, of course you should make it known that you’re seeking, but not by words; by actions.

    People get scared away easily by strong suggestions. Telling someone something like, “I haven’t had a boyfriend in 3 years and I’m really ready to get serious with someone again,” is enough to send any sane person running, but innocently flirting and getting to know someone is a great way to show that you’re open to the idea of dating.

    Look closely at the dating lives of your friends. There’s a good chance that the people who are always single are the ones who are desperate to find a match, and the ones who always attract relationships are the ones who are care-free about their dating lives.

    The more pressure you put on finding a date, the harder it’s going to be for you to get one. Next time you go out, don’t do it with the intention of bringing someone home. Go out and enjoy the time you spend with the people you’re around, and you’re going to be much more attractive to others!

     

  • Peters 4:17 pm on October 20, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Your Weight Isn’t Effecting Your Dating Life, But It Is Effecting Your Sex Life 

    An overwhelming amount of both men and women in North America think that it’s harder for them to meet singles when they’re overweight. Well guys and gals, sorry to burst your bubble, but you can’t hide behind that excuse anymore. In 2010, eight times as many people that got married were overweight. It’s the way of the world now in America! People are generally heavier, so you can’t use that as your excuse as to why you’re not getting any action.

    What you can blame on your weight however is your shitty sex life!

    People who are overweight have a harder time reaching orgasm. How much harder? Almost 45%!

    What does this attribute to? Most of it has to do with physical abilities. Overweight people have a harder time in the sack because they get tired easier. They can’t contour their bodies in positions necessary to achieve a good orgasm, and in cases where there’s a little too much cushion for the pushin, you simply can’t get deep enough.

    I’m not saying you should go out and drop 90 pounds. Everyone has a healthy weight for their height, and as long as you’re in that range, you’re able to lead a healthy and full life. But if you want to increase your chances at a better sex life, you should consider shedding some of your excess weight!

     

  • Peters 8:26 pm on October 19, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Who’s The Most Likely To Go Down On You? 

    Don’t roll your eyes at us, we’re human! We have needs. And we want those needs met in the easiest way possible. Which is why we’ve done a little research and found out which people are the most likely to be down with giving oral sex! If you’re trying to meet singles, try meeting these ones:

    #5- People who have just started a new job

    When someone starts a new job, they’re optimistic about what the future holds and are excited about learning, and trying, new things. If they don’t usually give BJs on the average date, chances are they’re going to be a lot more open to it this time around!

    #4- People who like holidays

    This one sounds silly, but studies from the University Of California in Berkeley show that people who enjoy the holiday season like it because they are naturally more giving people. It makes sense, but what you probably don’t know is that those people with the giving spirit don’t just let it loose during Christmas– They also let it loose in bed!

    #3- Talkative people

    Talkative people have certain oral abilities that make them comfortable with using their mouths for a variety of things from giving speeches to giving head.

    #2- Vegetarians

    The same study done at Berkeley that revealed that holiday lovers are more giving in bed also claim that vegetarians are three times more likely to give oral sex than meat eaters.

    #1- Social People

    No shocker here! Social people are popular because they know how to keep people happy and give them what they want. I guess there’s no limit to their generosity!

     

  • Peters 4:45 pm on October 12, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Beware Of The Halloween Taboo 

    What’s the two things most people expect on Halloween? If you said candy and sex, then you’re on the right track. Most people look forward to the 31st because it’s an excuse to dress slutty and get away with it. You can show your cash and prizes to an entire room of people and everyone is willing to brush it off because it’s Halloween! You’re supposed to be in costume!
    But along with Halloween comes the unexpected pressure to wear the right costume. If you wear something too juvenile, you’re risking not being seen as sexy. If you wear something too indie, you risk most people not knowing what you are. And if you wear something that’s over done, you risk people not paying any attention to you at all.
    There’s a thin line between good and bad when it comes to Halloween costumes, and you need to know how to walk it!
    The Slutty Costume
    If you’re going to be the girl that wears a slutty costume, the taboo you have to stay away from is anything air-head related. A girl in a nurses outfit that plunges at the front and has a skirt that rides a little too high is hot. A girl that wears a cheerleader outfit and goes around saying ‘like’ every other word is not. If you’re going to vamp up your look, make sure you have the brains to back it up!
    The Scary Costume
    This is a popular one because, after all, it is Halloween. If you want to be scary, there are fun ways of doing it. Being a vampire or bride of Chucky are over done and bland. Be something new! Have you ever seen Marilyn Monroe as a zombie? Throw on the white dress and a few bloody gashes and viola! A brand new scary costume that no one would have seen coming.
    The Indie Costume
    An indie Halloween is a great way to meet singles because it instantly gives you a way to recognize if two of you have similar interests. Would it be fun to dress as Tuco from Breaking Bad? Yes. Would the people who understood it think it’s a good costume? Undoubtedly. But the fact is that most people wouldn’t know what you’re supposed to be! Nothing is worse on Halloween then people asking you all night what you’re supposed to be. If you’re going to go for a pop-culture outfit, do something that people would recognize.
    Halloween Taboos are hard to avoid, so do a little research before hand! This is your chance to dress up as someone else and show off your unique side. Do Halloween right and don’t fall into the October taboos!
     

  • Peters 7:02 pm on October 6, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Treat Your Boobs Right, Ladies 

    October always reminds me of how great boobs are. It’s breast cancer awareness month, which helps, but mostly it’s all of those slutty Halloween costumes that show off the tatas of all those women hoping to meet singles while at their costume parties.

    The great thing about boobs are that every woman has them. You should start treating yours well! Here are a few tips on how to keep your boobs happy and healthy:

    Use a loofah

    Did you know that besides your armpits, your under-boobs have the highest number of sweat glands? That means they get sweaty and gross by day’s end. Clean ‘em up properly by giving them a good scrub!

    Ditch the bra!

    For women with large breasts and neck problems, you know how much of a pain it is to carry all that extra weight on your chest. But did you know that a lot of the stress your neck and shoulders feel aren’t from your boobs themselves, but from your bra? The pressure the straps put on your shoulders and back are creating the discomfort. Ditch the bra for a day and treat yourself to a silk shirt. Not only will the pressure be relieved, but the silk on your bare boobs will feel great. And if you have someone to bring home, try silk sheets! They’ll feel just as good on your boobs while you’re having sex as your shirt did during the day.

    Make them look bigger without a plastic surgeon

    If you’re a member of the itty bitty titty committee, chances are you’ve thought about what it would be like to have bigger hooters. There’s an easy trick without having to get surgery! The first is the obvious: a padded bra. But let’s face it, that’s just not enough. Grab the bronzer you have left over from last year’s Jersey Shore Halloween costume and sweep it in a circular motion around your boobs. It will give your breasts the shadows that larger ones have.

    If you’ve been ignoring your boobs, pay them a little more attention! The creepy guy across the hall from you has, so join in on the fun!

     

  • Peters 5:04 pm on September 27, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Class Is In Session 

    Where’s the best place for 20-somethings to meet singles in the real world? The easy answer would be to say through an online dating site, and while that would be true if you were looking at where singles meet digitally, it’s not the same as where they have the best chance of meeting organically.

    Believe it or not, the best chance at finding someone between 18 and 28 is on a university campus!

    With a growing number of people enrolling in universities in 2010 and 2011, it’s no wonder that the highest concentrated number of 20-somethings in one place is at a school. But now that you know where to find them, how can you further that to finding someone to have a relationship with?

    Head over to the campus coffee shop
    When people have a few minutes in between class, chances are they’re not going to stand around and wait for their next class, they’re going to find something to do! Coffee shops are always filled with people who are looking to waste time, and what better way to do that then getting to know someone! Find someone sitting by themselves who has a free seat around them, and ask if you could take a seat. It’s an easy way to break the ice and opens the door to conversation.

    Check out the library
    Everyone needs to study in University, and the library is the place to go. If anyone catches your eye, mention the subject they’re reading up on and offer your expertise. If you don’t know anything about their field, ask them about it! Talking through their subject will help them study, so really by hitting on them, you’ll be doing them a favor!

    Go to the campus store
    Every university has a store that sells essential reading materials for  class, and the lines are often longer than the wait to get into the college pub. If someone is buying a book they need for class, there’s no doubt they’d appreciate a little distraction with conversation as they wait in line.

    Support your team at a sporting event!
    Sporting events are great places to  meet people because you already have something to talk about: The team! It unites the two of you with a common interest and makes it easy to talk in such a relaxed and fun environment. And, best of all, the endorphins you get while cheering for a team are the same ones you have while having sex!

    It’s easy to meet people on campus, all you have to do is start talking!

     

  • Peters 5:19 pm on September 23, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Traits That Attract 

    Ever think that the reason you’re still single isn’t because you haven’t found anyone good enough yet, but maybe because people think you’re not good enough?

    I’m just going to sit here for a second while that sinks in.

    You ok, there? Ok, good. Chances are it you’re a perfectible suitable match for someone, but if you want to meet singles you have to let that be known! Highlighting your attractive traits is crucial when finding a date.

    So what are the traits people look for the most?

    Decisiveness
    “What do you want to do tonight?”
    “Um… I don’t know. You pick.”
    “Well I picked last night, and the night before, and the entire week before that. Let’s do something you want to do tonight!”
    “Okay, well, um.. Uh.. Let me just call someone and see what we should do.”
    If someone is dating you, they want to get to know YOU! That includes what you like, things you like doing, and how you want to spend your time. Having them always make the decision of how you’ll spend your time together will get on his nerves and drive him away. Be decisive!

    Be willing to compromise
    You want to go see a play and he wants to go to the big baseball game. Would it kill you both to just see a movie about sports? It’s a perfect middle ground of the two! Not everyone has the ability to compromise (*cough*selfishpeople*cough*),  so if you can, you should!

    Have a passion
    It’s great that you’re into them, but you should be into other things, too! Seeing someone have a passion for something is a very attractive feature for both men and women.

    Have the right style
    Even if you’re not fashionable, you can still have appropriate style. This simply includes not wearing flip flops to a nice dinner, and not wearing revealing clothing in public places. There’s a time and a place for everything, even clothes.

    Be confident!
    Nothing is a bigger turn off than someone who doesn’t think highly of themselves. They want to be with someone who is confident in what they’re doing (especially when it comes to sex!).  Start thinking you’re hot shit and people are going to be thing it right along with you.

    These 5 traits are key in attracting a match, so make them prominent and start getting dates!

     

  • Peters 3:10 pm on September 7, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    If They Do This, Then They Probably Don’t Like You 

    “He’s just not that into you!” It’s an easy sentence to say, but a really, really hard sentence to hear. Not only does it suck because you’re finding out that someone doesn’t like you, but it’s embarrassing that someone else noticed it before you did! Instead of waiting around to be told that by someone else, notice the signs yourself so you’ll know when it’s time to ditch your date and meet singles again!

    They’re Not Into You If…

    They’re not putting an effort to see you.
    Are you always the one to take that step and make plans? If they never ask you to hang out, or it seems that they’ll only hang out when it’s convenient for them, then you’ve found yourself a loser.

    They have more excuses than enthusiasm
    “Tonight? Uh.. I can’t. My neighbors son’s car has a flat tire and I said I’d help change it, it’ll probably take all night.” Excuses like that are the biggest red-flag for one way relationships.

    You haven’t met any of their friends
    The approval of someones friends is important to them. They want to know if they think you’re a good match, if they see a future for you two, and most importantly, if the friends get along well with you. If they haven’t bothered to introduce you to them, then you’re probably nothing more than a sex buddy to them!

    They check out other people when you’re with them
    A glance could be innocent, but it could also be them saying “And when I’m done with you, I’ll be on them.” (Here’s a hint: It’s probably the second option.)

    If they’re doing any of these things, figure it out for yourself before someone has to tell you! They’re just not that into you!

     

  • Peters 7:11 pm on August 30, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Gunmetal Will Get You Laid 

    If you missed the VMAs on Sunday, you missed Bruno Mars doing a wicked cover of an Amy Winehouse song, Lady Gaga acting bizarre (par usual), Beyonce announcing her pregnancy, and the fashion trend that you’re going to want to try this weekend.

    It seemed that every female at the awards that didn’t look like they were dressing for Halloween was dressed in the same thing: Gunmetal. And what did the critics have to say about all the girls dressing similar? Nothing! They loved it! Gunmetal is the color to wear for fall, and lucky for you, it’s not just because of the fashion: Gun metal is going to get you laid.

    Gunmetal, which if you’re not a fan of fashion.. Or the color wheel… is a dark grey with a shine to it. Just like the color of metal that guns are made of (see where the name comes from?). It’s an extremely slimming color, and believe it or not, it beats out black for the what-makes-you-look-your-lightest color. She shine helps turn your chunk into sexy curves, which when you see how good you look in it will make it all the easier for you to be confident when you meet singles.

    Not only will it make you look your best, but when men see the color, they associate it with danger, which will make you all the sexier in their eyes. Girls attention gets triggered by guys who look like they would be sweet and sensitive lovers, but guys want to have sex with someone who they think would tear apart the room in the process. The color alone is enough to get them excited, but having it draped on your body will drive them wild.

    If you want to spice up your fall wardrobe and get lucky while you’re at it, go for the gun!

     

  • Peters 6:25 pm on August 29, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Going On Vacation With Someone You Met Online 

    It’s a common thing for couples to do: They want a break from life and an escape from the ordinary dates they’re used to going on, so they hop on a plane for an enjoyable week at a tropical resort. It’s always a good idea to put the spark back into your relationship– but what if that spark is still new, should you go on vacation with someone who you’re in a fresh online relationship with?

    I often express the importance of protecting your safety when you meet singles online. Regardless of how close the two of you get online, it’s nearly impossible to tell if the person is being honest about who they are if you haven’t spent extensive time with them offline. Unless you’ve already explored this online relationship offline, you should give them a big ‘N-O’ if they ask you to go away with them.

    If you have gotten to know them offline and you’re considering going, be prepared for the relationship to change quickly! There’s a lot of pressure that comes with vacationing. Most people see it as a time to unwind, but planning flights, booking resorts, and taking the time to travel there can out a big strain on a person. You have to both ensure that you’re prepared to travel with each other on an emotional level, not just a pleasure level. If one of you is a bad flyer, for example, then the other has to be ready to help you through it. If you’ve only ever talked to online, you’ve probably never had to do that before, which can be stressful.

    Being in closed quarters with someone on vacation can quickly go from fun to frustration. The pressure to make things go well (along with the pressure of sex) is enough to ruin the vacation alone. If you are thinking of vacationing with your online dating partner, be prepared for those beautiful tropic waters to be a little rocky!

     

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