When it comes to trying to meet women, sometimes it seems as though most men are completely clueless when it comes to dating. They often seem to want to jump right in to talking about sex and then having sex really quickly. Men seem to use sex as a way to determine if there is compatibility, but women often feel that they don’t want to have sex unless they feel there is compatibility. This is a perfect example of how men and women think differently and the difference can keep them from coming together as a couple. Dating isn’t easy for anyone, but it sometimes seems especially difficult for people of opposite genders simply because they communicate completely differently and they think and reason completely differently, so what makes sense to one doesn’t make any sense whatsoever to the other. Some of the dating websites are offering more article and quizzes, to help people identify better relationship matches for themselves by matching personality types and explaining some of what’s going on in each gender’s heads.
Women are often worried that there is still a double standard regarding sex, and usually they’re correct. There is still a double standard where men are able to have sex with anyone, anywhere and anytime they want to, even if it’s the first date. Women, however, are often judged rather harshly by society, even in this day and age. A woman that jumps into bed too quickly is still often considered a slut, and some men will still dump a woman that they feel has given in too quickly. This makes it kind of difficult for women to know what to do and how long they should make the guy wait. It also makes it rather difficult for women to be able to enjoy their sexuality and their sex lives. Who wants to sleep with a guy if he’s going to dump her the next day? Even worse is that women have to wonder if this guy is the gift that keeps on giving; giving STDs, giving orders, giving rules and giving the stalking laws a run for their money. Men have to fear the exact same things with new female partners, but men usually seem much more laid back about the whole thing. Hopefully we’ll learn to understand each other a little better to make dating somewhat easier.