There may be times when actually fucking may not be completely on the table for you and your partner. You shouldn’t allow that to interfere with the happiness and sexual satisfaction that you could be sharing with your partner if you use a little creativity. There are a lot of ways you can bring them to an orgasm for instance with licking and sucking. These are great ways to really pamper and please your partner. Long luscious blow jobs or licking pussy can be just as effective and even more intimate in a way then making the beast with two backs. A couple might be surprised that they have grown so used to the fucking that the licking and sucking was never fully and completely explored beyond maybe foreplay or a few stolen moments. It’s a very common occurrence to actually leave many approaches behind, begin to explore some kinks then just drop them as a relationship grows and people get locked into certain behaviors. If you establish good communication skills with your partner and explain to them that it is perfectly okay for them to tell you everything, and that you want to tell them everything, than things will be perfect between you. You cannot fully please them if you do not know how, if they don’t tell you how.
So just open yourselves up to the fantasies that you could bring true for each other and explore all the myriad ways you can take your partner to places they’ve never been but only read about, or dreamed about. You could really make a big difference for someone and open them up to so much pleasure with you. It may very likely be that they have never been with such a giving, and open and understanding partner as you, and this can make them very eager to please in return. For committed lovers fucking is a very small and limited part of what their sex can be about, how they approach and deal with one another on a multitude of levels. There are so many ways to be intimate, many we forget we have forgotten as we march so swiftly in and out modern day lives and try to battle expectations.