Fitting In
There are many single people who feel very nervous and stressed out about trying to fit in at a club. These people are taking an experience that should be exciting and fun for them and turning it into a frightening and for some even horrifying experience.
This need not be the case.
What should happen is that friends should help other friends adjust. If you take that step and offer to take someone under your wing like this, the advantages and rewards you receive could be untold. First and foremost you will have helped a friend find happiness and confidence. This alone is reward enough. Pragmatically speaking you will have found a new wingman that you can now trust to help you out when you are trying to work your own style and scene you will have gotten a good reputation as a solid and stand-up person who takes care of their people. Thirdly, you will never know but that that person could turn out to be a knock-out heart breaker and maybe you help to shone-up a gem in the rough who will bring all manner of new acquaintances and possible dates your way. Take that person and tell them that if they want to get laid or find that special someone they will have to develop confidence before anything else can happen. You can help them do this by giving them a make-over and showing them just how effective they can be at being sexy and attractive. When they see how attractive they are that alone will build confidence, then when they actually try out their new look and see how people respond that will build still more confidence. Once they have really built up enough to get started they can be taken out. When they get fucked that first time it will change them and they will be ready to join the dating scene as a new member and ready to find whatever action they are looking for. If they want a fuck buddy they’ve got it, if they want more they’ve got that too. You will have done a great thing in helping someone overcome very unnecessary fears that have plagued them a long time.
