For people looking to date, friends trying to determine if there is sexual interest from their friends, or any of us thinking we might have a chance at some Xxx action, we have to all determine a level of interest from the other party. It’s not enough to get a side-long glance or a tweet, these days we are reaching out and communicating so often it’s not a surprise to get a hello from even the most remote of acquaintances. We need to look for a little more if we want to have that progression happen where we make a friend a date, make that date a steady romance, and make that romance into a Xxx sex partner.

Though clues and hints can vary there are a few basics for anyone dating or hanging out wanting to facilitate the Xxx progression…

1.) We are making time for this person or they us. If we suddenly realize we are spending more time with a friend then we used to or they are calling us up to hang-out-on weekend nights especially-then we might be rolling into a romance, which could progress to…

2.) The person we are dating making overt advances. We might then indeed be being led down that garden path of sex soon with them….

3.) Then when we do have sex with our partner they want to introduce toys or suggesting them, begin to whisper their kink to us, we might be getting close to some Xxx action.

Remember the Xxx progression can occur anywhere and with any person we have a causal interest in and they us; a casual friend, a new date or a long time romantic partner we have only ever had vanilla sex with. We’ll know Xxx when we see it-and feel it-but it’s good to know it is coming to so we can be ready for it. Most likely if we get to the point we are even noticing the progression we’ll probably find ourselves in the thick of it…and then, who would want to stop it?!

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